Saturday, 6 December 2014

It's all about timing....

Everything comes down to timing. The guy I went on a date with. The most perfect date. His father is dying. 

A couple months back he told me his dad was given a month to live. We spoke about it briefly but I kinda figured he wanted and needed a distraction. I followed up a couple times but I got the feeling he did not want to talk about it. I left it alone. I can even imagine the pain he is in. 

After our date, he sent me a text letting me know his dad had taken a turn for the worse and it would be a matter of days. I followed up a couple times but I'm not really sure what my place is here. If he were my friend or boyfriend I would be there every day for him. But we are nothing except two people who get along and had a great date 

I don't know him well enough to really know what he needs. Some like to talk. Some like be alone. Some need a distraction. I'm not really sure what he needs. 

So basically it all comes down to timing. I know I want to see this guy again. I'm just not sure when our second date will be.  If there will be one...

It's all about timing. 

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