Flattery will get you everything...

And ladies and gentleman we might have a winner on our hands. So in my quest to put myself out there I went on another date last night. Yes that is right it is three in a row. 

I have been talking to him for months now. We had a couple of breaks where were out of touch but so somehow always found a way back to eachother. 

We never met until last night. I never had a date where I felt so comfortable with a person. It was like hanging with old friend. He  looked different than I imagined but in a good way. He was a good looking man who was personable, talkative and I could tell was really into me. 

I've never been on a date where I felt so desired. It was a nice feeling after being with Robert who made it a point to distroy my self confidence as a women. When I went to the bathroom as cheesy as this sounds he sent me a text to let me know that he found me hot. 

Maybe it was a bit much. Maybe I'm not used to a guy verbalizing what he thinks about me in a positive way. It actually put me on guard a bit. I started to feel like he was just saying stuff and did not really mean it. 

He told me it was the best date he has ever been on. He said I was funny. I made him laugh. Said I was an amazing kisser ectra ectra...I guess flattery will get you everything!!

Compliments are nice in whatever form they take. 

Guy radar!

Funny cause I went on another date this week with another guy and low and behold:

1-guy that I was speaking to for months but we never met who completely flaked out on me when I did try to meet and never texted me again for like a month and half contacted me. He said hey gorgeous, I miss you ectra ectra. I did not question his disappearing act but I will when the time is right! Strange!!

2-my so called complicated fwb who I never see invited me to his country place for the night. I have not seen him over 6 months. We text here and there. It took every ounce of self control not to go. Radar I tell you. 

Back to the date. It was fun. He was cool. He was not for me but I would hang with him again but honestly I know he will never contact me. I just know these things sometimes. 

I know my blogs are all about boys. I might seem boy crazy I know. I just find dating really confusing. I never did it. I'm making all the mistakes I should have made when I was in my 20's now!!

Parts of it are fun but I'm starting to get fed up. I just want to meet a cool, sexy, interesting guy to hang with and possibly build a relationship with. I think I am more and more ready to give away my heart. I actually want to know what that feels like. The butterflies, the smiles, the attraction...

Oh well I guess right now I have to settle for guy radar....

Get the hell outta dodge!!

That pretty much summarize my first date in 6 months. 

I've never been on a date where I did not feel like a guy wanted to be near me. To be honest I was really not into him either but haha. I kinda wanted to be desired. 

Whatever. I guess I'm back in the game. I'm ready to meet people. Have fun. Enjoy people enjoy people for who they are. 

Long texting sessions are a thing of the past. It's kinda pointless cause when you finally do meet if no chemistry exists you just wasted weeks. 

Changes are a coming!!

I feel it in my body. Things are going to change soon. The winds of tide has finally blown in my direction. I'm ready, able and capable of taking any challenge that comes my way. 

Will it be hard? Yes! Will I feel anxious?? Yes absolutely!! Will it e good for me??? Obviously. 

If your not changing, you are not living!  

Changes are a coming and I for one am happy to embrace them with a friendly hello :)

Sunday morning coffee talk about boys...

Boys, boys and more boys. It's funny how boys seem to come out of the wood work unexpectedly. You have not spoken to then for months and bam they magically appear. Guys you figured you would never speak to again and never gave it a second thought. 

Am I just a filler? The go to girl when things are slow? The girl good for a chat but nothing more. I wonder why they all keep on contacting me. 

In a span of one week three guys from my past contacted me. Three guys that I forgot about. Okay two I forgot about the other he should get his own blog entree as he is confusing as hell!!

I wonder what would happen if I ignored them all. Well one I plan on ignoring. It was a really bad date and I'm not interested at all. 

Ahh Sunday morning coffee talk about boys... Super confusing!!