Oblivious

Can I really be that be oblivious to my sister who says she is anxious and nervous. I want to help her but she closes up. I try. I do not need another to feel like I do.  I need to reach out in a way that she can hear me. I never want a single person to ever experience what I do. It's torturous. No one should ever feel like I do. And the thought that my sister has any anxiety hurts me.  I never want anyone to live what I do.