Bubbles

I live in a bubble. I hurt others cause I'm trying to redefine myself. I hurt someone tonight. I hurt my best friend a few weeks ago. I hurt my family with my behaviour. 

Where do I draw the line between my needs and someone else's needs. I gave up me for another. I'm not willing to do it again. But I'm scared I'm becoming a bitch cause I'm all about me and my bubble.